verb (used with object)
1.
to hold responsible; find fault with; censure: I don't blame you for leaving him.
2.
to place the responsibility for (a fault, error, etc.) (usually followed by on ): I blame the accident onher.
3.
Informal. blast; damn (used as a mild curse): Blame the rotten luck.
noun
4.
an act of attributing fault; censure; reproof: The judge said he found nothing to justify blame in theaccident.
5.
responsibility for anything deserving of censure: We must all share the blame for this deplorablecondition.
Bad things happen to us all, it is part of life but when those things do happen are you a "finger-pointing blamer"? I know that it is much easier to blame someone other than yourself for the event(s) that led to this "thing" happening but in most cases it is partially if not all your fault.
I have recently been the target for some rather vicious finger pointing blame and it really sucks. I will call this person, Wilma.
Wilma and I have never been friends, only acquaintances Wilma is not the most loved person in our community, she actually has quite a nasty reputation for being a hard core bitch (and I am saying this with a soft tone). She is very selfish, she is constantly blasting people behind their backs and rarely has a kind thing to say about anything. Wilma is all about Wilma. Needless to say that you don't want to be on her bad side and currently, I am Prospect #1 on her bad side.
Without giving away too much information, here is the short version of her beef with me ...
I have lived in this area for quite some time even before my divorce so I know a lot of people. I network often due to jobs and local organizations/charity events. I also know Wilma's soon-to-be-ex-hubs. Wilma and ex hubs have had a roller coaster ride of a relationship as long as I have known them. Something was always going on but they had no impact on my life so I didn't really care.
Fast forward, her soon to be ex has actually turned out to be quite normal which has shocked me. We have been socializing quite a bit together and it just so happens that Wilma has decided that I am the reason that her world is falling apart. This couldn't be farther from the truth but she has pinpointed me as public enemy #1.
Here are just a few of the things that Wilma has recently pulled:
* She sent a scathing yet poorly written email to my boss (who is not even in the same city). She attempted to get me terminated but that backfired BIG TIME! We all laugh at the BS that is spewed in that message.
* She continues to label me as "the one that destroyed her".
* Two weeks ago while out seeing a friends band, she wrote on soon to be ex hubs passenger window, C*NT in lipstick. I am pretty sure that it was intended for me.
* I had to pull down my business FB Fan Page because she was posting nonsense and cursing.
Those are just a few instances. She is a total nut and what is really sad, I had absolutely nothing to do with the unraveling of her marriage. She has done plenty on her own and everyone in our area knows of her "issues" over the last several years but come hell or high water, she wants to blame someone. I wish that someone was not me but, it is. I have alerted a number of people of what is going on just for safety reasons or if I end up dead. Hopefully this will die down because I do not want her to go straight up Betty Broderick on me. I thought that Jamie's ex wife was a pill but she is lame next to Wilma.
Next week is The Kidlet's Spring Break and I think that mid week I am going to head to Houston to visit family and get away from the craziness up in here! TTYL :)
Fast forward, her soon to be ex has actually turned out to be quite normal which has shocked me. We have been socializing quite a bit together and it just so happens that Wilma has decided that I am the reason that her world is falling apart. This couldn't be farther from the truth but she has pinpointed me as public enemy #1.
Here are just a few of the things that Wilma has recently pulled:
* She sent a scathing yet poorly written email to my boss (who is not even in the same city). She attempted to get me terminated but that backfired BIG TIME! We all laugh at the BS that is spewed in that message.
* She continues to label me as "the one that destroyed her".
* Two weeks ago while out seeing a friends band, she wrote on soon to be ex hubs passenger window, C*NT in lipstick. I am pretty sure that it was intended for me.
* I had to pull down my business FB Fan Page because she was posting nonsense and cursing.
Those are just a few instances. She is a total nut and what is really sad, I had absolutely nothing to do with the unraveling of her marriage. She has done plenty on her own and everyone in our area knows of her "issues" over the last several years but come hell or high water, she wants to blame someone. I wish that someone was not me but, it is. I have alerted a number of people of what is going on just for safety reasons or if I end up dead. Hopefully this will die down because I do not want her to go straight up Betty Broderick on me. I thought that Jamie's ex wife was a pill but she is lame next to Wilma.
Next week is The Kidlet's Spring Break and I think that mid week I am going to head to Houston to visit family and get away from the craziness up in here! TTYL :)
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