No one that knows me in "real life" would ever describe me as shy or one to dodge a hearty debate but I will say that I have been known to be a control freak. Ha ha, chuckle, giggle if you must but most of the time I know that I can get the job done better if I just do it myself. This has now put me in a bit of a hole with someone that is in my life and unfortunately, will always be in my life..... The Ex Hubs.
I will state that for the most part, he is a good guy, great father, etc. I will say that there really isn't a lot for him to do because regarding our daughter, I do it ALL. Shopping for clothing, school projects, PTA, volleyball events, managing our calendar, doctor/dentist appointments, haircuts, play dates, birthday parties, sleepovers, blah, blah, blah. To be fair, I don't mind doing a lot of these things until he pisses me off ... enter today. I have reached a new level of being pissed off and I'm tired of it. So, without further ado ...... Meet Bare Minimum Kim!
I will still do what needs to be done for my child on my weeks but BMK is now off duty on his weeks. Now this will not be a smooth transition for him (I laugh as I type). I am sure that finding a store that carries those damn calendars will be quite the chore as will actually researching when some of her activities take place but I am certain that he will figure it out, one day.
BMK will no longer send text alerts for upcoming events or purchase birthday presents for parties on his weekends. God bless the kid that ends up being the first one that he has to buy for. If The Kidlet needs a costume and it happens to fall on his week .... it is all you pal! Need to know what size clothing/shoes she wears? Don't call me because on my "off" weeks, I have no child therefore cannot help.
Whew, that felt good to get off my chest! Now on to the other jerk offs in my life to start fighting back ;)
Party on ....
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