So, if you don't like me ...SUCK IT! Real hard.

Re-evaluating oneself is always a good thing.  In my case, it is/was a very good thing.  You may often think that you are happy and content with your life until things change.  When this happens, it tends to cause a state of confusion which can lead to aggravation.  Once you put aside the fantasy and focus hard-core on reality, you can then decipher what you want and need.  Guess what?  This is all that I want and need (please see photo below).  She does not judge.  She loves the person that I am not the person that she wants me to be.  She is acutely aware that I am a smart ass and at her young age can take a little bit of teasing.  She does not blow smoke up my a*s.  She is forgiving.  She knows that I am not perfect.  She is my Kidlet.